3 Ways to Incorporate What the Groom Wants

Gone are the days of the groom proposing and simply showing up to the wedding. Yes, majority of the wedding details are not top of mind for him, but nowadays grooms want to ensure their presence is felt. We want to talk in today’s blog post about 3 ways to incorporate what the groom wants for wedding day.

First Dance

The groom most often takes the lead when it comes to the music. So why not extend the playlist he is creating to the first dance song. It is a very special moment with his new wife, and this gives him a chance to shine. He can pick a few different options that speak specifically to your love story, and you can make the final selection together.

Signature Drinks

Your signature drinks should definitely represent the two of you. Mulling over the different options based on your favorites mixes, talking with the bartender to determine the best combinations based on your likes, and even tasting the options given by the bartender are all things he is very capable of handling.

Everything Garter Related

This is the one area that is entirely planned by the groom. You have both the garter retrieval and the garter toss. Grooms have taken this special part of the reception to an entirely new level. The guys are really creative, going from creating routines to serenades, and even blindfolding the bride to create even more excitement in the moment. 

There are so many details to pay attention to when you are planning a wedding. It cannot hurt to have the help of your partner willingly take on some of that responsibility. We have shared just 3 ways to incorporate what the groom wants for wedding day, but we know you can think of even more. You can always give input and make suggestions in the areas that he handles. But at the end of the day you are building a partnership.

Until next time…

be sweet & happy planning!

~Tish

(photo credit: Simone Elise Events and Samslay Photography)

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